i have many experiences of my life, and as soon i remember or observe i can not restrain myself in writing in my blogs. i am observing that people are still misguided by religious leaders of all religions the rites which are in their benefit. the most effected is ladies. they are easily manipulated for such acts. by repetition they even make agree the gents of family. i have always said that ladies work most but their one nature finishes all the favors done . that is their attitude and selfishness. lady have the quality that she never recognize the good work of other lady, she can not hear praise of another lady. even of her daughter or sister. she hears to anybody and believes, may be it is a politics to harm her. . in my life i have experimented many times. but could not find a single to prove 100 %, latest i experimented but i failed. the ladies show their real sanskar and retaliate in a moment. as in one of my blog they even make fool to elders, of family by telling that peer or devi comes on them and they show power at the moment. a easy way to get their desired fulfilled, and to get rid of work. the fool husbands, due to illiteracy believes on them. they never think that if such a powerful lady is in house then why problems or diseases, they can cure by her spiritual power. this was possible for saints or prophets only, a general man can come to this category only after great and long tapasya.that also not achieved by mass. one or two achieve the title of saint. in India latest mother Teresa could get after death after lot of service..
illiteracy have deep routes among ladies in India due to it is backwardness in all classes. even educated families are effected. the so called many priests and sermons who define in their own way the religion are the main cause to create such orthodox habits. they themselves do not follow and to get good feasts and money on all occasions sad or merry they tell many rules this and that or so. the priest are enjoying most in the indian subcontinent by making people fool through ladies who are orthodox, beliefs and blind faith in suspicions and superstitions. many ladies can be seen sitting around such notorious on sites like dargahs,near holy temples and sometimes even roaming in colonies,streets with some old chadars,or any other supporting aids. have we ever thought if money making or cure, harm to any person is so easy then why they are begging or asking donation. such can make palaces for themselves, why they roam here and there. they even sometimes do not know religion,numerology,astrology,or even the customs. their eye is only to extract money, and through the blind followers ladies, and to much of faith shown to husbands, realize after the mistake of the blind faith. and after wards realise they were cheated. such ladies due to illiteracy put the families in crisis. that is the reason the ladies were given limited powers in all religions. if they had equal power and strength they must have not been given many allowances they avail. i always in favor of equality. but the data s, and observations bring me to the conclusion that lady child needs more education, she only brings up the boy child. the effect of mother is more on a child. so for upgrading the society it is very important to give more attention on women, she needs more up gradation, if she will be literate and wise, not emotional,strong then only the society will improve. till now more then 90 %ladies are house wives and can play a good role in improvement. these personal views if mine are brought on record after long observation in my home ,neighbor,friends,work place and outside . i have studied a lot to see who can bring early development in nature,attitude,thinking, manners and to develop good sanskars. that i found that women can do this task. i found that children are more close to mothers and follow more. to them father is always a hard man ,because whole day the mother says to child that she will complain to father and he will punish you. this creates a image of father that he is always very strict and mother is soft and giving grace. the reason generally the children are away from father to resolve their problems all through mother. though actually the realty is not that gents are more forgiving they forget very earlier. so a change in atmosphere through women can be effective for good behavior and moral duties and awareness by bringing more higher education among women.
najeeb khan
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