true friend

it is not easy to find out a true friend. since my childhood i had many friends, but very few proved to be true . when i use to study at peters i had friends,sunil parasher,amrish patel,kalra. j.p.singh s p bhagia,these friends i use to also meet at home. we use to play games,and my younger brother use to accompany me .my house was in gali and less room to play so we use to gather at those house which had a big lawn. our friendship contd. up to 1970. then at high school or inter level and degree ,tech course new friends developed/but what i want to mention we never had any difference,nobody use to think who is spending.i use to get less pocket money but never any even in higher classes harish chopra, or others never said you bring less comparatively. parents when we use to go to each other homes use to talk to us and also offered snacks etc. this attitude is vanishing today and the friendship is only for borrowing homework copies etc. most are selfish. and these days friends are not reliable. i had many friends during my service up to January 2001 ...but all had two faces, later on i knew that they harmed me a lot. so it is better to be without friend but like such.... is he your friend who calculates,even tea,he offered to you,try to equalize his expenses spent with you. i had many so called friends who use to come to my hose not to meet but to get meals. and use to say at home that saved hotel bill for today. innocent children disclosed their tales at home....so what i say is make friends only who deserve,watch them for about one year then only belief...otherwise prevent such friendship not lasts if one is selfish.....khan najeeb 1956
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